How We Work
Together
Tailored coaching and consulting for every form of loss — individual, organizational, and spiritual.
Personal Recovery Coaching
One-on-one sessions, deeply personal, confidential, and compassionate.
Group Coaching
Small, curated groups where shared stories create collective strength.
Grief Recovery Sessions
Specialized grief coaching drawing from pastoral experience and psychotherapy.
Enneagram Coaching
Certified Enneagram sessions for individuals, couples, and teams.
Organizational Seminars
Customized seminars for businesses, churches, and non-profits. $650–$1,000/session.
Speaking & Lectures
Emotionally resonant keynotes on loss, recovery, identity, and the Enneagram.
Workshops & Retreats
Immersive day and weekend experiences for deeper healing and transformation.
Faith & Healing Sessions
Gentle, spiritually grounded restoration coaching — never preachy, always compassionate.
Understand Your
Deepest Self
The Enneagram is not just a personality test — it is a map of the soul. As a Certified Enneagram Coach, Dr. Neil uses this ancient system to help you understand why you respond to loss the way you do, and how to find wholeness.
Why the Enneagram Matters
When we experience profound loss, our core fears and motivations are often triggered. The Enneagram provides a clear framework for understanding these reactions, allowing us to move from unconscious patterns to intentional healing and growth.
Understand your emotional patterns — why loss hits you the way it does.
Rebuild broken relationships — with others and with yourself.
Break destructive cycles — releasing patterns that keep you stuck.
Restore confidence and identity — rediscovering your truest core.
"The Enneagram reveals how we are uniquely made — and how we can be set free from our false selves to become who we were created to be."
— Dr. Clive E. NeilWhy Everyone Should Take
The Enneagram Test
The Enneagram is far more than a personality test — it is a powerful framework for understanding why we think, feel, and behave the way we do. Rooted in ancient wisdom and refined through modern psychology, the Enneagram identifies nine distinct personality types, each driven by unique motivations, fears, strengths, and blind spots. Unlike many personality assessments that simply describe behavior, the Enneagram helps uncover the deeper patterns that shape our decisions, relationships, and life experiences.
The Foundation of Self-Awareness
At its core, the Enneagram is a tool for self-awareness — the foundation of personal growth. By understanding your Enneagram type, you gain insight into your natural gifts, recurring challenges, emotional triggers, and limiting beliefs. This awareness empowers you to break free from unhealthy patterns, overcome self-imposed barriers, and become a more authentic, balanced version of yourself.
The benefits extend far beyond personal development. The Enneagram can transform relationships by helping us understand the perspectives, needs, and motivations of others. It fosters empathy, improves communication, reduces conflict, and strengthens connections in marriages, families, friendships, and workplaces.
Parents can better understand and nurture their children, couples can deepen their emotional intimacy, and leaders can build stronger, more effective teams by recognizing and adapting to different personality styles.
Enneagram 1 — The Reformer
The Reformer is the idealist and principled — the one who, self-convinced and justice-oriented, raises things up to their highest version.
Enneagram 2 — The Helper
In love of the love. The Helper is the one who loves to please and irradiate kindness by delivering themselves to others.
Enneagram 3 — The Achiever
The Achiever is an energic type with a lot of self-awareness that could turn into someone empowered. They are pure potential and determination.
"Self-awareness changes everything."
A Path Out of the Box
What makes the Enneagram especially valuable is that it does not put people in boxes — it shows them a path out of the boxes they have unknowingly created. It reveals not only who you are today, but who you can become through intentional growth and self-discovery.
Whether your goal is to improve your relationships, become a better leader, strengthen your marriage, raise more confident children, grow spiritually, or simply understand yourself more deeply, the Enneagram provides a practical roadmap.
Taking the Enneagram test is like receiving a personalized guide to your inner world. It offers clarity where there is confusion, direction where there is uncertainty, and hope where there has been frustration.
Enneagram 4 — The Individualist
The Individualist is deeply feeling and self-aware, searching for identity and meaning. Gifted with depth, creativity, and an ability to hold space for others' pain.
Enneagram 5 — The Investigator
The Investigator is perceptive, innovative, and cerebral. They seek knowledge and understanding, quietly observing the world with precision and depth.
Enneagram 6 — The Loyalist
The Loyalist is committed, reliable, and responsible — an anxious but courageous type who finds security through trust, preparation, and deep loyalty.
"You cannot heal what you do not understand."
The Beginning of a Life-Changing Journey
If you've ever wondered why you react the way you do, why certain challenges keep repeating, or how to unlock your fullest potential, the Enneagram can be the beginning of a life-changing journey of discovery, growth, and transformation.
The better you understand yourself, the better every part of your life becomes. That's why everyone should take the Enneagram test.
"If you've ever wondered why you react the way you do, why certain challenges keep repeating, or how to unlock your fullest potential — this is where your journey begins."
Enneagram 7 — The Enthusiast
The Enthusiast is spontaneous, versatile, and optimistic — always seeking new experiences. Their joy is contagious and their creativity boundless.
Enneagram 8 — The Challenger
The Challenger is self-confident, decisive, and powerful — a natural protector who leads with strength, directness, and an unwavering sense of justice.
Enneagram 9 — The Peacemaker
The Peacemaker is receptive, reassuring, and agreeable — naturally gifted at creating harmony and seeing all perspectives with grace and patience.
Discover your core type and patterns through our comprehensive assessment.
Healing is not a destination — it is a journey. Every journey begins with a single, courageous step.