Dr. Clive E. Neil
Author, Coach & Consultant
A life dedicated to guiding others through the darkest valleys.
For over four decades, Dr. Clive E. Neil has walked alongside individuals, couples, and organizations as they navigate the profound disorientation of loss. Whether it is the loss of a loved one, a marriage, a career, or a deeply held identity, Dr. Neil provides a compassionate, structured path toward healing and wholeness.
As a Certified Enneagram Coach, Dr. Neil integrates this powerful personality framework into his coaching and consulting. By understanding your core motivations and fears, the Enneagram becomes a vital tool in rebuilding your identity and aligning with your true purpose after a devastating transition.
His work is grounded in the belief that while loss changes us forever, it does not have to break us permanently. Through compassionate guidance, practical tools, and deep spiritual insight, Dr. Neil helps you discover that your story is far from over—and your future is still waiting for you.
40+ Years of
Experience & Leadership
Educational Foundation
Eastern, Alliance & Drew University - 1983Educational Foundation
Eastern, Alliance & Drew University - 1983 studies Masters in theological education. From Princeton in counseling Certificate from Oxford University London in Biblical studiesBuilt a strong foundation in theology, human development, and counseling, equipping him with the tools to guide others through life's most challenging transitions.
Pastoral Leadership
Bedford Central Presbyterian Church - 1985Licensed and ordained by Presbyterian Church USAServed as Senior Pastor, of Bedford Church in Brooklyn, New York, providing spiritual care, grief counseling, and community leadership to thousands of individuals and families over decades of dedicated service.
Pastoral Leadership
Bedford Central Presbyterian Church - 1985Loss & Recovery Coaching
Global Practice - 1990 to PresentLoss & Recovery Coaching
Global Practice - 1990 to PresentExpanded his focus to specialized coaching, helping thousands globally navigate the disorientation of grief, divorce, career loss, and profound life transitions.
Enneagram Certification
Advanced TrainingIntegrated the Enneagram framework into his coaching methodology, providing clients with deep insights into their core motivations and pathways to healing.
Enneagram Certification
Advanced TrainingPublished Author
3 Transformative Books - 2024Published Author
3 Transformative BooksAuthored "The Gift of Grief", "Dancing with Danger", and "Breaking Through", sharing his wisdom and the Butterfly Effect Method with a global audience. Plus 3 books on relationships and social development.
Published Works
Dr. Neil's books provide lasting wisdom and practical guidance for those navigating profound change and seeking spiritual renewal.
A different path through loss that doesn’t ask you to rush, pretend, or heal on a schedule.
A transformational framework guiding you from the depths of loss into empowered, purpose-driven living.
Navigating the spiritual disorientation of loss and finding your way back to hope.
If you've ever wondered...
Will I ever feel like myself again? This book was written for you.
In his latest book, Dr. Neil distills decades of coaching experience into a practical, compassionate guide for anyone navigating a major life loss. It is not just about surviving; it is about discovering how the pieces of your brokenness can be rearranged into something remarkably beautiful.
Understand the physical, emotional, and spiritual impact of grief.
Learn to navigate the complex process of identity recovery.
Discover actionable steps to realign your life with a new sense of purpose.
Before you leave...
I'd Like to Personally Welcome You
Discover the heart behind the Butterfly Effect Method and how you can begin your journey toward healing and wholeness.
Why People Choose to
Work With Dr. Neil
You won't be rushed.
Grief has no timeline. We move at the pace your heart and mind need to process your unique experience of loss.
You'll be heard without judgment.
Your pain is valid. Here, you will find a safe, confidential space where your deepest fears and doubts are met with profound empathy.
You'll receive practical guidance.
We don't just talk about the pain; we implement actionable, proven strategies and frameworks like the Enneagram to help you navigate forward.
You'll rediscover purpose.
Loss often shatters our sense of self. Together, we will uncover the enduring strengths and new callings that lie beneath the brokenness.
You'll never walk through loss alone.
Isolation deepens grief. You will have a dedicated, experienced guide standing steadily beside you through every step of your journey.
"Your future is still waiting for you."
Healing is not a destination — it is a journey. Every journey begins with a single, courageous step.